Well, let me tell this. Baba is a soft-spoken religious Kelantanese whose one of the hobby is writing literature (poetry is included!), while Mama is an outspoken anak jati KL who grew up in an English-spoken and modern surroundings. Sometimes i can't help questioning how was everything going at the very initial moment they gotta know each other? Baba is someone who’s sooo into sastera Melayu while Mama speaks no other languange but English. OMG, mesti susah nak understand each other masa awal berkenalan dulu kan..?
But undoubtedly everything went very well. Yeah there were of course a boon n a bane somewhere n sometimes but as time goes by, things can never get even better :) They just show us how harmony the life is, they complete each other, they combined both their specialties n bestowed all of those to all the 8 of us. Baba is a pure Kelantanese but he now can speaks and understands English very well - thanks to Mama ( so people, stop all the believes such those born in the east side will never be good in English!) I have to admit that Baba has a strict-looking that tends to scare most of my male friends. Everytime nak ajak i keluar they can't help asking this, “Baba kau ada kat rumah tak Na?” Haha. But i think most of my dear friends just got my dad very wrong. My Baba is very friendly n gracious even to strangers, helpful, sincere and has a very very soft-hearted, for God sake (that sometimes people misused it by taking advantage of him-in terms of money-i don't have to tell this). Nevertheless, my dad’s best words are, “Halalkan saja..”. Hehe. Even if it kinda ‘gnashing Mama’s teeth’ most of the time, but don't worry Baba, Dikna still think that you’re the coolest dad ever!
aidilfitri 2008- mama & baba wif part of us =)
The very best part is, hmm.. At their leisure time Mama n Baba will sit together at the veranda or so-called Baba’s office (its Baba’s favorite place to finish his reading), where in here Mama will let Baba corrects her doa, her zikir n asks Baba about hukum hukum that she might uncertain about. They’ll discuss and change opinion on something that happen these days (that includes politics etc). Sometimes i join them (yes i DO), resting my head at Mama’s shoulder as i always do, gazing n just listening to them. At that moment, i was like.. Oh, Mama is so LUCKY to be with a man like Baba. i can't help looking at myself, am i going to have a husband with this kinda guardian-angel character? That will correct me when i’m wrong. Yang tanpa jemu membimbing i, yg akan memperbetulkan bacaan sembahyang i, yang akan ajar i doa doa baru, yang betul betul menanam keyakinan bahawa hanya Allah yang menentukan segalanya.. yang will genuinely say ’til death do us apart’..? Yeah we’re not live in luxury, but we never lack of love n faith towards each other.. I believe all parents are wonderful riight? So my friends, do appreciate them while u still have the chance to do so.. May GOD bless all fabulous parents all over the world!